attachment in relationship

Welcome to the Attachment in Relationship quiz. These are questions concerning your thoughts and feeling about yourself and relationships with others. Please read each statement carefully and decide how much the statement is generally true of you on a 1 (not at all) to 7 (very) scale. If you believe that an item does not pertain to you (e.g. you are not currently married or in a committed relationship, or one or both of your parents are deceased), please answer the item according to your best guess about what your thoughts and feelings would be in that situation. Be sure to answer every item, and try to be as honest and accurate as possible in your responses.

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I rarely worry about my partner leaving me.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7

I find it easy to depend on romantic partners.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7

I talk things over with my partner.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7

When I show my feelings for romantic partners, I'm afraid they will not feel the same about me.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7

My partner only seems to notice me when I'm angry.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7

I often worry that my partner will not want to stay with me.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7

I don't feel comfortable opening up to romantic partners.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7

I worry a lot about my relationships.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7

It helps to turn to my romantic partner in times of needs.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7

My desire to be very close sometimes scares people away.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7

I'm afraid that I will lose my partner's love.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7

I tell my partner just about everything.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7

It makes me mad that I don't get the affection and support I need from my partner.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7

Sometimes romantic partners change their feelings about me for no apparent reason.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7

I usually discuss my problems and concerns with my partner.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7

My romantic partner makes me doubt myself.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7

I am very comfortable being close to romantic partners.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7

I prefer not to be too close to romantic partners.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7

I feel comfortable depending on romantic partners.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7

I feel comfortable sharing my private thoughts and feelings with my partner.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7

My partner really understands me and my needs.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7

It's not difficult for me to get close to my partner.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7

I prefer not to show a partner how I feel deep down.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7

When my partner is out of sight, I worry that he or she might become interested in someone else.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7

I find that my partner(s) don't want to get as close as I would like.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7

I often worry that my partner doesn't really love me.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7

I worry that romantic partners won't care about me as much as I care about them.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7

I am nervous when partners get too close to me.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7

I find it relatively easy to get close to my partner.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7

I get uncomfortable when a romantic partner wants to be very close.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7

I often wish that my partner's feelings for me were as strong as my feelings for him or her.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7

I do not often worry about being abandoned.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7

I worry that I won't measure up to other people.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7

I'm afraid that once a romantic partner gets to know me, he or she won't like who I really am.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7

It's easy for me to be affectionate with my partner.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7

I find it difficult to allow myself to depend on romantic partners.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7

attachment in relationship